Short Memos

Memo 4: Marriage + Family

I" do believe that marriage has a purpose, a specific purpose, that particularly protects women (and men, but mostly women) and I thereby encourage marriage being an end goal to any long-term romantic relationship. Being a long-time girlfriend leads you nowhere but to unprotected land. 

Memo 4: Marriage + Family

Memo 3: The Reality of Sex & Intimacy for Black Women

Have you ever taken a moment to think about all the things that you can't do simply because you are a woman? I'm not talking about because you have a physical illness that prevents you from being able to do these things, I am talking about the restrictions that society and patriarchy has placed on us to prevent us from taking our rightful place in society.

Memo 3: The Reality of Sex & Intimacy for Black Women

Memo 2: When You Know Better, You Do Better Because You ARE Better and That’s Okay

A few years ago when I began my journey to becoming a better version of "myself" I was forced to take a hard look at the people who were around me and analyze the contributions each person made to my current situations and weigh them against what they could possibly contribute to my new journey.

Memo 2: When You Know Better, You Do Better Because You ARE Better and That’s Okay

Memo 1: Stay In Your Lane

People get upset with me when I tell them that I am not going to discuss or debate a topic with them if they are not educated, working or have worked in a particular industry or niche. 

Memo 1: Stay In Your Lane